The connector comes apart obviously ( insane price from that alfa place !! )
https://alfa-restoration.co.uk/shop/pro ... cts_id=239
Once apart the pins can be released without special tools as I already said. But the connector body does literally come apart to release all the pins if need be.
Pic
![Image](https://alfa-restoration.co.uk/shop/images/products/Motronic%2088%20Pin%20Connector%20kit%20%283%29.jpg)